Sex is so complicated and we don't always understand why something turns us on. The mystery is part of the fun. :)
Personally, for me it's as much about identification as objectification. For example, I may not find, Bellatrix hot as an object. But I find it very hot to imagine myself as Bellatrix. And sometimes I find it enjoyable to identify with the male in a pairing as he objectifies another male. Of course I am only speaking for myself.
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Date: 2011-10-15 12:07 pm (UTC)Personally, for me it's as much about identification as objectification. For example, I may not find, Bellatrix hot as an object. But I find it very hot to imagine myself as Bellatrix. And sometimes I find it enjoyable to identify with the male in a pairing as he objectifies another male. Of course I am only speaking for myself.