I find it helps to try and think about why someone might enjoy the kink, even if it's not really your thing. Certainly that's what does it for me. Not so much that Character A enjoys Kink 1, but what Character A gets out of it. And maybe what Character B gets out of helping Character B. What is it about the kink that turns the character/s on?
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Kinda curious as to the kink, now.